Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Aftermath...


"More than Suraya handling herself well, my beloved wife handled Suraya well. In fact, Ely had to spend the majority of the time with her out of necessity. I am forever grateful to my wife for all she did on this trip, as are my grandparents and other relatives. I've said from the beginning that this trip is no vacation, but it's just something we must do, as my grandmother may only have one chance of ever meeting her only great grandchild. We couldn't have asked for a better family visit, and I hope Grandma can hang in there a little while longer so she can watch little Suraya grow. And I hope that Ely and I can see 65 years of marriage just like my grandparents...

Posted by sid presley 1/22/2007 1:46 PM"



With that comment, it means that I do not have to explain why we went to Florida.

Its been 48 hours since we came back from the trip. Suraya is still trying to get use to the Pacific time...being 3 hours later than Eastern time. Her bedtime is 3 hours earlier and she wakes up 3 hours earlier too.

The flight to Florida was a breeze. It was night time and both flights were not fully booked. Staff gave an an extra seat so that I could put Suraya in the seat next to me. It helped me a lot of not having to hold her all the time. We were not so lucky on the way back to SF. Since it was a Sunday, no extra seats available and I had to hold Suraya most of the way...that explains why I was so mangled. Every limb of my body ached. Took me 2 days and a 600mg Ibuprofen to take the pain away.

But we experienced watching a very scarey situation on our way out of Florida en route Charlotte, North Carolina. We were boarding the plane and there is a mother with a baby (about 1 year old) in hand. The baby was crying non stop for 15 minutes as soon as he boarded. Then all of a sudden we heard 'Hey, you need to BE QUIET YOU HEAR ME???'...I thought that was the father yelling at the baby but it was another passenger yelling at the baby! The mother in defense, yelled back and said not to yell at her baby. Then the ignorant passenger said 'Well, your baby is disturbing my peace and I am sure others feel that way too!'. But I also heard one passenger said 'No we don't' and I said 'Go get a first class ticket next time buddy!'. Geez...I think I would have reacted worse than the mother if Suraya gets yelled at. How ignorant some adults can be. It was not as if the parent was not trying to quiet the baby.

Well anyway, thats how travelling with an infant was for me. Suraya will be a world class traveller by end of this year. So many relatives to visit for a little baby lke her. For me, I am sooooo done travelling either by car, plane or train. My mother in law in Reno can wait until I am up to travelling again cos this mama and her baby is done for now! This goes to the husband too...ya hear me husband?

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ely,
May be it's the relatives' turn now to visit Suraya instead.....

Anonymous said...

That ignorant passenger needs to be locked up in a sound-proof room with sounds of babies screaming and crying blasting in his ear for .... I dunno .... the rest of his life?? What a pig!

I hope it won't be too long for you and Suraya to travel again! :D

And I hope both Ayeed and Ajab will be good travellers when we do decide to take a flight to some place.

Arena said...

Hi,

takpelah pelan2.. kesian suraya nak travel jauh2 nanti.. Teruknya the guy yang sound2 baby tu.. so inconsiderate.. macamlah the parents tah cuba utk tenangkan the baby kan.. grrrrr..

Anonymous said...

Ely. we were in the same situation the first time we took a train from Copenhagen to Aalborg. After a whole day's journey, our little Akif who was 3 months at that time was just wailing during the whole journey home. Some others were just giving me rude stares. And I spent two hours at that space between two cars, trying to calm my poor baby down. For GAJEEBERS sake, we were in the family car. The others without kids could just shove off! I will never sacrifice my (or my kid's) comfort the next time.

Anonymous said...

"And I hope that Ely and I can see 65 years of marriage just like my grandparents..."

How utterly sweet and touching!

Mama Rock said...

i could have kicked the guy's ass....how dare him!