Sunday, August 13, 2006

I did miss San Francisco after being away for at least 4 weeks.

The cool weather, the peace in my neighborhood and the half empty malls here. No trampling of people trying to get the same sutff as I do, no one cutting my line when I am lining up for food, and cars here slow down for pedestrians (ahemm, besides the point that pregnant women walk slow).

Please do not get me wrong, I do love my country. But now I remember why I vowed to myself that I shall live far from home when I grow up. Even my favorite cousin says that I have the 'Most likely to stay abroad' tag pasted on my forehead since I was little. He knows me so darn well. And with the crisis that came upon me on my last visit, being away from home helps alot in terms of sanity and recuperation. Noone here to bother me, to say bad things in front of me (at least I wouldn't hear them) or even 'snatch' my precious things from me.

When Uja came to visit and we sat in Union Square itself drinking Diet Soda, it was scattered with tourists but the feeling was very serene, hearing the cable car running every minute and the bells ringing. We could sit there for hours with Uja repeating herself saying that its oh so beautiful here in SF and me kept saying 'Kau tak tinggal sini Uja, suma nampak wangi lah' ('you dont't live here Uja, everything looks beautiful here). But she still could not hide the truth that San Francisco is a beautiful city by itself.

If you dont like the crowd, then take the car and drive 20 more minutes to the cliffs and the beach. Our family's favorite place to sit and rot during the day, provided there's sun to keep us warm. Still bored? Lets go hiking, 10 more minutes of coastal driving and we're there to climb down and the cliff, explore the untouched beaches and then climb back up. (No wonder Ely's so fit eh? Still can climb and walk when shes oh so big now).

Let's snap back to reality. Ely and family has not finished unpacking...no we have not. Why? Cos we're too lazy and tired. Our first week getting back to work was such a joy to the husband and me...as long as we don't touch the luggage. Its Sunday now and what am I doing? We just watched an Alfred Hitchcock movie marathon since last night. The husband went to see a client who's selling his vintage car via eBay ($5k potential earning for us) and the daughter is rotting in front of the TV with pretzel crackers in her hands. No topic of the untouched luggages has been mentioned. In fact, the cats have been making the luggages their temporary bunk!

But I know that I need to update on my makeup...my foundation is almost at its last drip and the compact is sitting to its side container and the makeup brushes look more like used toothbrushes now. So this means that Ely needs to go shopping right? Just yesterday, I went for my haircut. My hairdresser was appalled to see my colored hair with split ends...she managed to cut the ends but still keep most of the length on my head. Looks so much better!

We have also found another halal buffet indian restaurant in San Mateo (15 minutes drive from our place). The food was heaven! Setting of the restaurant was also like heaven, siap dengan langsir and Bollywood dvd. Good place to bring Mak when she comes here in December.

Did I also mention that half of my maternity clothes are very fitting now? Yes, the baby just had growth spurts since I got home and she is kicking her way out of the maternity clothes. Eventhough I just gained 4 lbs from the trip, the baby surely is telling us that she had absorbed most of my food intake. So this means that I need to go get more clothes which I am violently resisting. I have 3 more months to go...I am so NOT going to spend more money on clothes that I am going to wear for a few more weeks. Oh wait! This reminds me that I DID buy a maternity pinafore when I was in Singapore...now i just need to go find it!

Now I feel that I need to sweep and mop the living room and the kitchen. Alah, malaslah...the cats are sleeping on the bed...maybe I should join them!

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Haha! You're just like my mummy, Aunty Ely! But she got excuse lah, for not doing the housework. She's in her 3rd trimester now, so daddy has to do all the work. Too bad for mummy he can't cook. Otherwise, he'll have to do that too! :D

Skater Girl said...

Ely,

Glad to see you doing well there, girl.. oh!! you've got 3 more months to go.. ALhamdulillah.. May you have a healthy and safe delivery and journey.. :)

Suriyati

Anonymous said...

ely,

banyak tak shopping masa balik spore dulu?
glad you dah settle back to SF. SF tengah sejuk ka now? Kat US skrg panas but area lain kot?

Nazrah Leopolis said...

twin mana you ? kena bikin appt lah mcm ni...


what time do get online nowadays?

Anonymous said...

i yearn to pack my bags and wave goodbye. has always been my childhood dream however ... maybe i've grown complacent over the years (though i still dream to leave). wallaahu`alam.

p/s: sorry i missed you on your trip home. did you get my BCC with hartini?

Ely said...

ajab booboo, wow whens ur mom due? u see, i can do the cleaning but when i pick up stuff fm the floor, thats a double chore for me. but i let the husband cook for me :)

suriyati, yup, abt 3 more moths to go! i i still wish that i get more sleep tho :(

kak kusyi, SF's weather is unpredictable. cold on one day and then panas on another. semlm panas but it cools down so much at 8pm. this morning? very cold! but it will heat up later at noon.

TWIN, as a matter of fact, i have not been online much. i was cleaning the room all day yesterday and then lepak on the bed and ended up napping too! will catch u soon lah dont worry ok.

triomommy, yes i received hartini's bcc but i dont think i received urs? yes sorry to have missed u too dahling. insyaAllah, there will be a time when we meet. keep that dream burning!

Anonymous said...

My mom's due sometime in the middle of next month. Haha!! See lah, never read my blog, right? :P

It's the usual complaints - back aches, feet hurts, baby moving about too much.

Ely said...

ajab booboo, but i thought i just went to visit u recently? *wink wink*

anedra said...

hey ely..have been away frm blogging and just caught up with my reading!

first and foremost.HUGGGGSSS!!! and secondly honey, just remember that God gives us challenges because he knows that we are strong and can overcome and that hopefully, we emerge as better people after this. so hang in there sweetheart (whatever it is that u are going thru.

glad u're home, cos i for one know that, nothing beats being at home sweet home. take care of yrself and of that precious little beauty in yr tummy!

Anonymous said...

Aunty Ely, if you want to entertain yourself more, you can visit my other blog:

http://curlywurlybooboo.com/bambinoblog/

Ahem! Kena promote sikit lah. Hehe! :D

Ely said...

mammal! good to have u back! i know u've been busy. dont worry, i hacent been really taking attendance on whos here and whos not hehe. life's like that, we all get tested when we're at our peek of happiness in life kan? insyaAllah, i am coming to terms with it.

ajab booboo, ok i shall visit that site when i have the time ok.

btb, again, i am so sorry tak dpt jumpa, takder rezeki lagi nak jumpa. i'll catch up with u online ok.

Anonymous said...

Ely I will email u sometime soon, alamak school starts Monday and I am not sooo looking forward to this. I am reading yr blog religiously my friend :)

Miss you!

Love Mona from Benicia

bunkerangs said...

i guess like you i also thought about what i will do if something happened to my hub. he thought that i would go back home coz of the family and relatives. but the more i think about it..the more i feel that i am not sure if that is what i will be doing. like you..the pressure, the stress ..hahaha. and you're not the only ones when it comes to unpacking the luggage after long trips. samalah kat sini...even with just going camping for the weekend..it will take me a couple of weeks to umpack :)

Ely said...

mona, i know we have all been busy huh? and with school next week for u, thats even double the busy time. school term here starts the week after so one more week! email me anytime my dear, insyaAllah, i shall try to reply ASAP.

bunkerangs, yup, its like when u're here, u want to be there, vice versa. but when u come back here, u will feel that this is where u might belong ....for now (i guess, or forever!). i have unpacked my luggage, by giving up! i put the baby stuff from the baby shower back into the luggage for when i have space for it. and i have not touched the husband's. oh well...the bags wont go anywhere would they?