Sunday, March 04, 2007

Its all about timing...

AlFateha to my beloved friend's, Nazrah's, mom who passed away on Friday, 3/2/07. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat Allahyarhamah, InsyaAllah.

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Taken 3 days ago at 6am, both in our robes :)


The time has come...for me to return to work in a few days, waaaaaaaaah!!! Oh so tidaaaaaaaaak!!!

I have been away from work since November last year. Oh what a wonderful time it had been. I had time to relax and slum before Suraya was born. I had the time to just do nothing at all.

After Suraya was born, I can say that I did quite a whole lot...let me see :

Delivery - Hello? That was the reason why I am away from work anyway yes? And that the reason how the following actions came about. Epidural is the best invention in the whole wide world.

Breastfeeding - Allah's greatest gift to humans, the breast milk. I am sooooooo happy to be able to feed Suraya with my own manufactured milk shake. Suraya is almost 15 lbs just by drinking my milk. The top shelf of the freezer is stuffed, almost full with my milk. She still has not taken on the bottle...but she is happily...yes happily drinking from the sippy cup (no choice! she has to drink). I will be lugging the electric breast pump to and from work everyday in order to keep giving Suraya milk. Let's see how long this will last!

Travel - We went to Florida, Reno, Napa and even Santa Cruz after she was born. Went to tonnes of buffet restaurants and numerous trips to the sushi bar/restaurants.

Visitors - We had 3 distinctive visitors, one before Suraya was born. We had Emi, Abang Wan and Mak whos still here. AND we were visitors to my father in law, grannies in law, cousins in law and mother in law. I say that the baby has truly brought the whole family closer.

Got fixed? - Yes...after delivery comes the fixing part. We (I really wouldn't mind one more kid but..) had decided that our production factory will be officially closed. Bye bye Size 1 Huggies Diapers...forever and bye bye birth control pills. Whoever's thinking of an alternate tubal ligation, look up Essure...no incision, no anaesthesia.

Let me talk more about getting myself fixed. Yes like I said in the earlier paragraph, I really wouldn't mind another baby but senses tell me that my body is done in this department. Dah lah, dah tua rasanya, compared to when I had a baby some 13 years back. But like I told the husband, getting myself irreversibly fixed brings a sad feeling to me...which means that I will be forever barren. Its like this in humans don't you think? Sometimes you still want to make a choice 'just in case' you change your mind. But oh well, I will be 35 this year...I think I need to concentrate on letting my kids blossom to beautiful adults and menopause in some 20 years or so hahaha!

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Love that shot of you and Suraya,inspires me!
Anyways,is it true that EPIDURAL really helps?If that's true..that's another thing that inspire me today just by reading at your blog!

Good day!

Ely said...

thank you zee, i try to inspire others to have babies, its my job hehehe.

i went thru 2 natural labors 14 and 13 yrs back. i wonder whylah i didnt use the epidural then. this last labor was beautiful, painless and stressless Alhamdulillah.

Mummy Rizq said...

cutenyaa... si suraya nie! geram!

alamak ely... 35 is still young. hee..hee.. considering me with only one boy and i will also be 35 nest year!

Anonymous said...

Suraya looks like you and a bit of your hubby, she's a beautiful baby :) Don't you love epidural? I had two epidurals with my two, and yes also I got my tubes tied last year, no more worries about birth control pills or iuds. Eh I love this pic of you and Suraya, u looked so refreshed.

Love
Mona of Benicia

Mrs Mum said...

Simply picture perfect!!!

Anonymous said...

Salam Ely
This is what I call positive and 'ceria'personality!!! Keep it going Ely and don't let anything in the world bog you!
Wassallam & Hugs
kak rose (G'many)

Ely said...

mummy rizq, thank you, isnt she adorable??? u will be 35 next yr, i nih 36 this yr, jadi i tua dululah hehehe.

hey mona, if u see suraya in person, she really looks like my hubby 99% and i wont be insulted if u think so too. epidural is the best kan? that picture was taken so early in the morning before i drove the husband to work, muka baru bangun tidur!

afzalmom, thank you!

kak rose, i have to push myself to be positive all the time, but sometimes i crash, u know what i mean? but i do really treasure ur words kak rose...hugs!

anggerik merah said...

Mom and dotter..so very cutee.. rasa nak cubit2 pipi suraya tuh...pls cubit for me!

Anonymous said...

hi there suraya! this is bambino supernunu dropping by! Is tht a baby robe you're wearing? Cute yellow duckies! Heeeeyyy, what colour are your eyesssss....? *stares*

Ely said...

AM, thanks dearie. I cubit for u already, I can gigit for u also if u want hehehe.

nunu, welcome to suraya's mommy's blog! yes thats a robe! i looke like a housewife running errands with curlers on hehe. color of my eyes? well the dr is still determining it...one time she said grey, another time greenish hazel, now we think its hazel with a hint of greeen...i think i am a chameleon!