Monday had not been a good day. Remember I mentioned in the previous entry about my office having 3 of us being pregnant? Well Monday was like a day of 'takdir'(fate).
Firstly, my new co worker, the first time mom and being 10 weeks pregnant lost her baby. She was in an offsite class but had made the 2nd appointment to see the gynae as the gynae suspected that there was something 'not good' when she saw the ultrasound and blood tests on Saturday. 2 hours later, she called the office, bawling beyond control, saying that she had lost the baby.
Then my closer co worker, she was expecting twins...lost one of the babies on the same day. She is currently 13 weeks pregnant.
The one who was a first time mom is back on offsite class and will see the Dr again on Friday. I won't see her till 5 weeks later as the class is a long one. She is still upset...but I choose not to call her till Thursday, to give her space to compose herself.
As for my closer co worker, she is on bedrest. She sounded upset this morning. But all I could do was to give her strong encouragement and support, which she really needs now. I shall call her again tomorrow and every morning to see if she is OK. We promised each other that we shall go through this together (we planned/coordinated our pregnancies, again, takdir for us to get pregnant at the same time).
Yes, of course I am worried for myself and the baby. I am in my 12th week of pregnancy and theoretically, the risk of miscarriage had been reduced by a significant percentage. But the point is that, Allah is great. Things can happen and cannot happen according to his wants. Anything can change in a minute or two.
Redha...thats all I can say.
Firstly, my new co worker, the first time mom and being 10 weeks pregnant lost her baby. She was in an offsite class but had made the 2nd appointment to see the gynae as the gynae suspected that there was something 'not good' when she saw the ultrasound and blood tests on Saturday. 2 hours later, she called the office, bawling beyond control, saying that she had lost the baby.
Then my closer co worker, she was expecting twins...lost one of the babies on the same day. She is currently 13 weeks pregnant.
The one who was a first time mom is back on offsite class and will see the Dr again on Friday. I won't see her till 5 weeks later as the class is a long one. She is still upset...but I choose not to call her till Thursday, to give her space to compose herself.
As for my closer co worker, she is on bedrest. She sounded upset this morning. But all I could do was to give her strong encouragement and support, which she really needs now. I shall call her again tomorrow and every morning to see if she is OK. We promised each other that we shall go through this together (we planned/coordinated our pregnancies, again, takdir for us to get pregnant at the same time).
Yes, of course I am worried for myself and the baby. I am in my 12th week of pregnancy and theoretically, the risk of miscarriage had been reduced by a significant percentage. But the point is that, Allah is great. Things can happen and cannot happen according to his wants. Anything can change in a minute or two.
Redha...thats all I can say.
To my 2 co workers...my prayers are with you and your angels in heaven.
5 comments:
akak,
insyaallah dengan izin allah, semuanya selamat.
jgn risau2 sgt. jaga diri.
hugs and kisses to u hehehe
hey u,
like everyone had say, insya-allah, everything will go on fine. *hugs* take care, aite.
love u...
salam
Take care ya, Insyallah everything will be well..
ely,
so sad to hear that...rezeki masing2...take care :) **blog hopping from the others**
kesian yr friends. YOU take care gurl...
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