Back to being psychic again. Last weekend, I dreamed of something weird, I could not remember what it was about but it meant that I needed to be very careful one of these days as someone whom I thought I 'trust' would be my enemy (as in backstab me). Well, I really do not have any enemies.
The dream was correct. Someone did start a rumour in the office that I had said something about a co worker...and added more juicy spice to it (imagine how brutal products rumour mills can produce).
This co worker who was the 'victim' was full of sarcasm when she came into the office yesterday which got me baffled. I knew there was something wrong but I let it go. Today, this co worker who was affected by what she thought I had said, confronted me and asked me if I really said it.
I truthfully said that I did mention something about about her but was nothing bad. I mentioned it to highlight how incompetent our management is BUT someone who started the rumour said that I said this and that which were not true. I asked this co worker (victim), why didnt she ask me yesterday instead of being sarcastic to me all day long?
Knowing that she had thought wrong of me, said that she did not think of that (duh!). She said that she likes me and why I had said such bad things about her.
Well, here's what I told her 'You and I have our numbers (production) to deal with. I dont have time to say anything bad about you. If I am not happy with you, you know I would say it out to you'.
She did not apologize for thinking wrongly of me but I guess she was kind of embarrassed that she did so.
Me? I was unperturbed by her actions. You see, I come to work to work. Sure, I dont shut up when I am frustrated with work and I do not reserve myself from that. But to speak ill of others? Hmmm...not my cup of tea.
People can be weird at times. I am glad that this 'victim' co worker came to me to clarify cos if she kept up with her sarcasm towards me, I would be asking her if I had said anything wrong. In the end, she gave me a hug, I was not emotional about it. Why? Cos sometimes I tend to not trust someone who trust the rumor mill...am I making sense?
Sales world can be so brutal. Sometimes when they cant get you, they use others to get you.
Anyway, Allah has given me this great gift of pychic in me. I thank Him for this 6th sense. At least I wasnt caught in this drama by surprise.
The dream was correct. Someone did start a rumour in the office that I had said something about a co worker...and added more juicy spice to it (imagine how brutal products rumour mills can produce).
This co worker who was the 'victim' was full of sarcasm when she came into the office yesterday which got me baffled. I knew there was something wrong but I let it go. Today, this co worker who was affected by what she thought I had said, confronted me and asked me if I really said it.
I truthfully said that I did mention something about about her but was nothing bad. I mentioned it to highlight how incompetent our management is BUT someone who started the rumour said that I said this and that which were not true. I asked this co worker (victim), why didnt she ask me yesterday instead of being sarcastic to me all day long?
Knowing that she had thought wrong of me, said that she did not think of that (duh!). She said that she likes me and why I had said such bad things about her.
Well, here's what I told her 'You and I have our numbers (production) to deal with. I dont have time to say anything bad about you. If I am not happy with you, you know I would say it out to you'.
She did not apologize for thinking wrongly of me but I guess she was kind of embarrassed that she did so.
Me? I was unperturbed by her actions. You see, I come to work to work. Sure, I dont shut up when I am frustrated with work and I do not reserve myself from that. But to speak ill of others? Hmmm...not my cup of tea.
People can be weird at times. I am glad that this 'victim' co worker came to me to clarify cos if she kept up with her sarcasm towards me, I would be asking her if I had said anything wrong. In the end, she gave me a hug, I was not emotional about it. Why? Cos sometimes I tend to not trust someone who trust the rumor mill...am I making sense?
Sales world can be so brutal. Sometimes when they cant get you, they use others to get you.
Anyway, Allah has given me this great gift of pychic in me. I thank Him for this 6th sense. At least I wasnt caught in this drama by surprise.
2 comments:
She's so adorable.. It's been quite a while since I write any comments on your blog..
Anyway, I just got to say that y'all got beautiful children and this one is so so adorable.. ;)
And, thank you for putting the Cenderawasih song.. it's been quite a long time since I hear that song.. Interesting...
that song is by 2D, kan? very mellow and meleret kinda song, right? *hehe*
boleh tahan jugak u nyer jiwang eh? *kekeke*
yang sudah tuh sudah. you shouldn't be feeling guilty. he should learn to pick up the pieces on his own. if he doesn't no one will - he needs to turn over a leaf lah. you nak pikiran buat aper, kan.
look fwd my dear. pandang kehadapan, baru ada kemajuan. *chewah*
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